Sandra McMillen
From time to time I have interviewed members of our chapter so that we
can get to know each other better.
Interview with Sandra McMillen
by Mary Williams
Mary: For those who don’t know
you well, tell us about your early family life and education.
Sandra: I was born in Plainview, TX. My parents were
both musical. They met when my father attended a dance at the
American Legion featuring the Edwards Family Band. My mother was
playing the piano. I learned to play on the violin that my
Grandfather made and passed down to my mother. We shared the violin
for until I went to college. My father played guitar.
I studied piano, violin, and voice from an early age. My first
performance was as a solo singer for my mother’s study club at the
age of 4. I added organ my Freshman year and studied with the organ
professor at Wayland Baptist College.
I was active in Choir, Band, and Orchestra throughout school and
always knew that music was at the center of my life. I had
opportunities to study Architecture and Math but Music won out in
the end.
I was also very active in my church music choirs from the age of 9.
I sang in a Sextet which provided special music for our church and
for area meetings, etc.
I was given the opportunity to be the assistant director for the
Singing Boys Choir at church (ages 9 – 12). This was wonderful on
the job training as a choir director and fueled my love for the
adolescent male singing voice. I later specialized in the adolescent
changing voice and studied with several experts.
Mary: How did you
decide on a career in music?
Sandra: I was fortunate to have many fine
teachers and directors that made music attractive. They opened a
world of experiences which enhanced all subjects in my world. I
learned early that music related to every subject I studied in
school.
Mary: Where did
you go to college and what was the best part of it? Worst part of
it?
Sandra: My undergraduate work was at West
Texas State University where I majored in voice. After taking string
class, I asked to study viola and joined the orchestra. I was in the
WT band playing Baritone Sax, Tenor Sax, or Flute. I also studied
piano and was approached about majoring in piano but knew that the
demands of three performance groups and Opera Workshop would not
allow adequate time to major in piano.
The hardest part of college was working to pay the bills. I had a
music scholarship but it did not cover my other expenses. I had a
Lions Club scholarship the first year and a Tau Beta Sigma
scholarship the second.
I worked in the Music Department Records and Scores Library where
students came to study for Music Literature and History classes. I
had loans which took seven years to pay off following graduating
with a Bachelor of Music Education.
At the age of 35, I returned for post graduate studies at UTA where
I received a Bachelor of Music in Vocal Performance and Pedagogy
with a second major in Math. UTA had many music courses which were
not available in my undergraduate studies. I needed to improve my
skills as a private voice instructor and was able to do so at UTA. I
received the first Vocal Pedagogy Degree given at UTA.
Mary: Tell us
about your collegiate experience with Mu Phi.
Sandra: Near the end of my first semester, a
senior knocked on my practice room door. She was a person I admired
and respected. She wanted to talk to me about becoming a member of
Mu Phi Epsilon. She knew that I would also be considering Tau Beta
Sigma, the band sorority, and encouraged me to consider MPE. I did
and decided to double pledge and go on Band tour!!! I was very
active in the Alpha Nu chapter and served as Warden (Steward) and
Corresponding Secretary. I have many fond memories of those days and
keep touch with many of the Alpha Nu members.
Mary: Tell us
about your teaching career - what you learned from teaching and what
you hope you gave to your students.
Sandra: I was fortunate to do my student
teaching with Bill Cormack who became Executive Secretary of Texas
Music Educators. Bill gave me many positive opportunities to
practice my conducting and leadership teaching skills. Bill served
as a mentor over the years.
My husband was in the Military and I worked in a variety of music
positions depending on what was available where he was stationed. I
taught preschool and primary grade music in Alabama; High
School/Junior High/Middle School/ Intermediate School Choir and
General Music in Texas.
Mary: When did you
join the Dallas Alumni Chapter and what has this association been
for your?
Sandra: Following graduated from WT, I saved
up and purchased a Life Subscription to ‘The Triangle’. This
subscription kept me in touch with MPE until I moved to Dallas and
was able to join the alumni chapter. The subscription gave me
valuable information about the Fraternity and contact information so
that I could visit alumni meetings if I was in town.
The alumni chapter gave me the opportunity to perform on a regular
basis. This was especially useful when I returned for post graduate
work at UTA and presented three recitals over four years.
Mary: What was
your experience like as a District Director and then Second Vice
President – Collegiate Advisor?
Sandra: As an undergraduate I always wished
to be the chapter vice president in charge of the pledges. The
opportunity to work with all of the collegiate members and District
Directors was a dream position for me. I was able to convert the
many boxes of paper files into digital files which made for more
efficient recording keeping. I really enjoyed working with the
collegiate members, helping them to learn things which are not
taught in college classes: planning; How to use an Agenda; How to
write a Budget; How to write Minutes; How Committees Work; etc.
Mary: What have
you gained from this experience with the national organization?
Sandra: I understand the many aspects that
must be considered to bring the Fraternity into the 21st Century.
Working with the other board members opened my eyes to the
specialized jobs that make the fraternity work. I had chaired
conventions and worked on conventions with other organizations so
working on the MPE conventions was familiar territory for me. There
is nothing quite as special as the MPE convention when collegiate,
alumni, guest musicians, and friends of music get together to
celebrate Music!
Mary: What other
interests do you have? How do you spend your time?
Sandra: I belong to several other
organizations: Lecture Luncheon Club, Duncanville Women’s Club; Oak
Cliff Women’s Club, Delta Kappa Gamma Society International for
Women Educators; and Beta Sigma Phi Cultural & Social Sorority for
Women. I have served as an officer in many of these organizations
and continue to do so.
I work out at The Summitt Senior Citizen Center in Grand Prairie
using their fabulous pool.
For the past 19+ years, I was the backup babysitter and pick up from
school for my four grandchildren (20, 14, 6, & 2). As of this
summer, they have moved from Duncanvillle to Rowlett so I will not
have those demands on a regular basis.
I love reading, crewel embroidery, needlepoint, and sewing. We
travel and especially enjoy the Fort Wolters Chapter of the Viet Nam
Helicopter Pilots Association group. We attend the VHPA Reunion
every summer and the Combat Helicopter Pilots Reunion every fall. I
play Mah Jongg every Tuesday evening – our husbands go out to dinner
while we play.
Mary: Anything
else we should know about you?
Sandra: I have been blessed to have a
wonderful husband who has always supported the music activities and
many music positions I have held over the years. I would not have
been able to do so much without his support. He plays guitar and has
taken over my teaching studio now that I no longer have private
students.
Mary: Thanks for
sharing your interesting life with us. I hope you continue to have
fun.